Tuesday, October 27, 2009


I'm pecking with one finger again because I had my third hand operation (no, two hands, 3 operations) yesterday. I am grateful because I have a loving wife who drove me to the hospital, waited with me, brought me home, is taking care of me and just bought a rust-colored mum for me, my favorite flower. Yesterday I received not only excellent care but also loving compassionate care.

Today I have been drifting along contentedly with hydrocodone-induced Morpheus and dreams. Meow's new blog has stirred me into one of my own-gratitude for our new DD relationship. It has been a gift to me to provide a safe place for Meow to voluntarily let go and explore those "dark,secret frightening places" and "bring them into the light". DD has given me the quiet but powerful masculinity and dominance she has to feel before she can let go, knowing she can trust me to love and protect her regardless of what may come up. I never use my masculinity and dominance to force her, rather that strength is a lifeline while she explores frightening places.

My new strength in masculinity has been an absolute seachange for me-finally, in my 60's,  knowing I am becoming the man I've always wanted to be.

Thursday, October 15, 2009


It's supposed to be a sunny warm Autumn weekend so we are off today for vacation here in our beautiful Rocky Mountains. We may not have time for much blogging so we wish everyone a safe and happy weekend! Love,  Lash

Tuesday, October 13, 2009


This is a special day to welcome lurkers and invite you to comment and join our community. Welcome!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Winter outside, fire dancing in the fireplace...

and a warm inviting bed-sounds like a great weekend for Spanking! and such...(big grin).

Winter weather has arrived early in the high country; 4-5 inches of snow last pm, a low of 17 degrees (F) tonight and 4-6 inches of snow tonight and tomorrow. A nice relaxing intimate weekend with my Meow sounds wonderful! I might even have time to catch up on commenting on other blogs which I have neglected when I had that nasty cold.

I just remembered Hot Toddies;  4-6 oz Irish Whiskey, brown sugar and a touch of cinnamon or cloves-a few of those helped pass a Winter's evening. Fond memories as I'm entering the evening of my 20th year in AA, clean and sober. I have more time now for Meow.

Love,   Lash

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Happiness and Contentment

Those two words didn't used to be associated with me, but now they are. This morning, during our after spanking cuddle, Meow asked me how I felt when I was spanking her. I enjoy seeing her being obedient and submissive, coming to me naked for a cuddle, lying over my knee when I tell her to and taking whatever spanking I decide to give, and then cuddling again. I do enjoy spanking her. I don't specifically like giving her pain, but I like the power exchange between us and I know it's something we both need. I am now a "real" man and I enjoy that immensely. We are both much happier and are having a lot more fun living together. I even love Meow's sassy times.

Love,  Lash